Good Manners
I have been wondering lately what ever happened to good manners? Most of us were raised with them. I'm not just talking the please and thank you. Almost everyone does that. I mean good manners in the way we conduct ourselves with our fellow man.
I miss the "Hi, how are you doing today?" when I am at the grocery store or walking into a business. Most people seem so bothered by their own lives they forget that simple good manners go a long ways.
If you have an appt. with someone, and you don't show up, that is bad manners. A simple phone call to say I can't make it would be good manners.
Telling someone they look nice when they obviously have made an effort to do so, is good manners. Bringing a flower to a date, or pouring someone a cup of coffee shows good manners.
Simple things like saying good morning to your coworkers or asking someone how their ailing husband is, shows good manners.
I have noticed a lack of these things in the world today. People seem so caught up in their own little bubble. I often have thought that people were just jackasses, or snobby, or selfish. I don't know that this is the case. I think people have just forgotten the art of good manners.
I miss them. It's a way of conducting ourselves that reflects well on us as individuals.
We know better, we have just got caught up in a world that no longer puts importance on these simple things. We are more concerned with what your cell phone # is, than how your sick dog is. We would rather have an e-mail address so we can write to you later, instead of sitting down and having a cup of coffee and a real conversation with you.
It's become that simple to me, we are missing good manners and I want them back in our world.
So, on that thought, please have a nice day, thank you for reading my post, I hope your dog is better, and If you would like a cup of coffee, I would gladly pour it for you.
JB
2 Comments:
jb,
you've grabbed the blogging life and run with it. it makes a fellow blogger feel good inside. so much to say and so little cybertime to do it. your posts may not be "light" as compared to mine but for someone as yourself they are amazingly "light" i can't imagine that they caused you to tear up while writing them which was i think one of you main concers to begin with. oh yeah and regarding the subject matter it's great. manners, yes that is something that we could all do with more of i agree. although i do dislike when someone is "polite" just for "politeness" sake, it's gotta be real, from the heart. keep it up jb. i'm loving it.
It's funny your post is on manners when just this week I've started using the terms Sir, Madame, Ms., etc. Like "Thank you kindly, sir!" or "Good day, Madame," - it's just a little something extra. People seem to get a kick out of it and it makes me feel good. The gas station guy loves when I call him Sir. The Burgerville drive through gal brightened up when I said, "Have a great shift, Madame!"
You're right. Would it kill us to be a little nicer to one another???Bring back Manners! xo
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