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If it was meant to be, it would be......
I f*!$#ing hate that saying.
It's like somebody just made that up as a generic comeback for everything that dosn't happen.
Is there really some force out there that has a plan and we have no control over anything? All our hard work and efforts just mean nothing if it wasn't meant to be?
Should we just wander through life and not attempt to make anything happen in our lives? Because after all, it will only be if it was meant to be. According to most, all the hard work in the world can't make something be, if it's not meant to be.
that is just bullshit.

jb